Single guys dating women with kids
Read at your own risk.[This is this blog's most popular post.I think it holds up well and is highly relevant in today's world.That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child.Even if you were to marry her, the child(ren) will always come first, whereas being with a childless woman means YOU come first. So you’d bond with her children and then you (and the children) would have to endure the pain of losing or restricting that bond with each other.
As you can see, whether you’re just looking for sex or you actually do want to get married (= legally obligating yourself to give at least half of everything you’ll ever earn to a woman, being held legally/financially responsible for any children she births during the marriage whether they are yours or not), you should avoid single mothers.Depending on what is happening with the child’s biological father, how much time the child spends around you, paying for the child, and buying gifts for the child (think birthdays, Christmas, etc.), you can end up getting tagged for child support.All it takes is some judge or government official picking YOU to pay for the child’s needs rather than taxpayers.PLEASE NOTE: If you want to comment, do so here because this entry already had hundreds of comments.]Not of all of these reasons apply to everyone.Some men are dating for sex, others are dating for marriage and sex, for example. Men, especially men with game, have a choice in women. Unless you’re a pedophile, it is extremely unlikely that a woman with a child has anything to offer that’s of benefit to you that a woman without a child lacks.
Some do, and men should protect themselves.*Women are “single mothers” for different reasons.