Dating player tip
A simple reply saying “sorry that’s not what I am looking for” results in never hearing from them again or a polite reply saying ” thanks for the reply and I hope you find what you are looking for”.
These people I can respect, I may not wish to live their lifestyle but they are honest, polite and genuine. These are the guys and girls that send you sexually explicit, rather nauseating first messages, including their instant messaging details so you can have cyber sex or an unsolicited message saying “liked your profile, blah blah blah, I have attached a photo of myself.
Just to give you an idea of how sick and twisted these people can be, a few years ago when I first joined a dating site I immediately received a message from a lady which said “just to warn you, as you are definately his type, this guy “username” is a player on this site.
After he had finished with me recently he actually sent a critique with an overall score out of 10 and a list of ladies on the same site, along with their scores, to make comparisons with.
Every online dating site will have it’s share of players and if you want to find a genuine relationship then learn to spot the players on the dating sites you join.
Let’s start with the basics, what is a player and how does joining online dating sites suit their purpose?
For them there is no cheap dirty hotel or fish and chips on the pier, only the best will do and the men will provide it for you and the women will insist on it if you are getting anywhere near their g-string.
Remember for them it is a game, they are an actor playing the part of James Bond or Marilyn Monroe and will shower you with romance, compliments and be everything you want and need for them to be.
Modern times now see an increasing number of female players in a game that was traditionally thought of as exclusively male.
Generally when you first join a new dating site you will very quickly be approached by the honest “looking for a casual sexual encounter” gang.
Some people like this sort of thing from a total stranger so leave them to respond.
No, real players are skilled at their game, they are experienced hunters looking for their next victim.
However they will not tell you they are no longer interested, so you will get messages like: Their reasons for the cool down are always ‘honourable’ and designed to keep you poised to come running when they next click their fingers.