Dating a former fat chick
That’s why I’m wearing that white skirt – to cover up my ‘massive belly’ and ‘big thighs’.
At size 10, when I looked in the mirror all I thought was ‘could do better’.
I also changed the wording slightly just in case OKCupid cottoned on and took them down.
The profile names had to be slightly different because the site won’t allow two the same.
She has a friend who's in the industry who's also from Ohio, and I knew her through other people. " It still blows my mind how many die-hard fans there are. And then I come to find out she's one of the top girls, and I was just blown away. You start thinking, "Is this really happening or is she just messing with me? When was the first time you watched one of her films? This is the most normal relationship I've ever been in. I was intimidated at first, but once we started to get into it, you just lose track of time and go with the flow.
They were coming to the city one time and [the friend] just hit me up on Facebook and said, "I haven't seen you in a long time. " So I went and met up with her, and Allie was with her. I watch porn as much as the next guy, but I don't go researching who they are and stuff like that. " I thought they were pulling some elaborate prank on me. How did you start telling your friends and family, and especially your mom, about her? I think it was probably about three days after [I met her]. Has she been one of the more adventurous partners you've had? There's a request service [on her website] where you can request custom videos and she'll talk to you. That's about the extent of what I'd do in the industry. I would say anybody who thinks porn stars are bad people are just out of their minds, because you can't judge anybody unless you've met them.
Over the course of five days, fat me received 18 messages, 74 likes and 81 visits.
Thin me received more than double the attention – 36 messages, 211 likes and 210 visits.
I'm sorry - I realise this is not going to be popular. I guess that's the closest you're ever going to get to fat shaming on Reddit. There are lots - way too many - guy that WOULD date a fat girl.
What's funny is when I met her, she told me she went to school to be a firefighter, and I used to be a firefighter for the EMT in Ohio. They were only supposed to be in New York for a few days, but we hung out and we swapped numbers. I called her a few months down the road when I knew things were kind of serious. and here's what she does." She said, "Oh my god, I thought you were going to tell me she's pregnant or something." She was like, "That's fine, I don't care about that." What about your friends? I have some friends who say, "Dude, that is so cool," and then I have other friends who are like, "You know what, you found a girl who really cares about you and at the end of the day that's all that matters and we're happy for you." That's what I like to hear. I had some other friends from Ohio who were visiting me in New York and one of them knew who she was and apparently was one of those fans I didn't know about. What I was really happy to see was that, as far as porn goes, hers was some of the more classy, nice stuff that I've seen. She definitely is the most open partner that I've had. My past relationships weren't what I needed, I guess. There have been a couple times where something will happen on set that she'll tell me about later, and I'll be like, "Why didn't you tell me right away?
It turns out that we did actually have a lot in common. So the next day, they ended up coming all the way over to Brooklyn from New Jersey, and we hung out every single day. I was going to tell her, so I called her and left a voicemail. People are like, "You're the luckiest man in the world." And people always say, "How do you do it? Sometimes it's really uncomfortable to bring those things up to people. Don't you think that's something I'd have wanted to know? This is something I didn't know, but performers can't be on set without a valid two-week test.
My weight has fluctuated dramatically throughout my life – I was a fat child, a thin teenager, a chubby sixth former, a skinny student and so on, up and down through my adult life.
I’ve never bought into the lie, popular with some elements of the media, that everything will be better when you’re thin.
But it can’t be denied that, if the guys of OKCupid are anything to go by, single men prefer thinner women twice as much. Alternatively, though, you could interpret these results slightly differently.